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What is the hardest part of writing erotica? Not using the “touched,” “hot”, and “wet” 1,000,000 times in a book. 

Not kidding. 

One would think that an author, someone who has wanted to write since she was 5 years old would have an expansive and diverse vocabulary - but nope. This gal was raised on Care BearsPunky Brewster and Pippy Longstocking, and while I can rhyme Hop and Pop with the best of the Dr. Seuss fans, when it comes to synonyms, I struggle. 

So I found a thesaurus. 

Yup, an honest to God, printed-on-paper, sitting-on-a-bookshelf thesaurus and while I was supposed to be paying attention in one of the umpteen-billion Zoom calls I attend each week in my day job, I flipped through that handy SOB and I book marked all the pages that deal with synonyms and antonyms and every other kind of nyms for “hot,” “wet,” and “touch”. 

Here are the word lists I have brainstormed, plus those collected from - or inspired by- The Concise Roget’s International Thesaurus, edited by Robert L. Chapman. (Thanks, Bobby!)

Hot

Burning 
Steaming 
Blushing 
Molten 
Feverish 
Smoldering
Fevered 
Fervency 
Fervidness 
Eagerness 
Excitement 
Boiling
Melting 
Sultry 
Torrid 
Thermal 
Firestorm 
Steam 
Glow 
Inferno 
Furnace 
Flush 
Bloom 
Redness 
Rubicundity 
Rosey
Rosiness 
Fire 
Blaze 
Flame 
Combust 
Flicker 
Roaring 
Raging 
Sea of flames 
Bonfire 
Balefire 
Wildfire 
Blaze 
Spark
Scintillation 
Cinder 
Brand 
Ember 
Fireworks 
Pyrotechnics 
Scorch 
Swelter 
Catch fire 
Flame Scald 
Swelter Roast 
Simmer
Blaze 
Combust 
Gasp 
Pant
 Smother
 Choke 
Warm as toast 
Torrid 
Sweltry 
Blistering 
Red hot 
White hot 
Ardent 
Like a furnace 
Like an oven
Combust 
Smoking 
Afire

Wet

Moisture 
Damp 
Dampness 
Sodden 
Dew 
Rainfall 
Drink 
Liquid 
Dewdrops 
Morning dew 
Night dew 
Sprinkle 
Shower
Splash 
Splatter 
Run 
Spatter 
Moistening 
Dampening 
Bathing 
Laving 
Flooding 
Deluge 
Soaking 
Sopping 
Drenching
Dunking 
Shower 
Bathe 
Drip 
Moisten 
Damped 
Drench 
Saturate 
Flush 
Flood 
Dunk 
Rainy 
Watery 
Liquid 
Splashy 
Wet to the skin 
Dripping wet

Touch

Stroke 
Caress 
Fondle 
Tickle 
Squeeze 
Grab 
Clutch 
Hold 
Titillate 
Scratch 
Prickle 
Sting 
Creep 
Crawl 
Gooseflesh
Goosebumps 
Tingle 
Atingle 
Finger 
Sense 
Kiss 
Lick 
Feeling up 
Rub 
Friction 
Tap 
Flick 
Breath 
Whisper 
Brush 
Graze
Handle 
Pressure 
Flick 
Prod 
Paw 
Palm 
Run fingers over 
Touch upon 
Brush by 
Graze 
Nuzzle 
Nose 
Rub noses 
Rub against
Rub 
Massage 
Kneed 
Lick 
Lap 
Tongue 
Mouth 
Lightly touching 
Playing lightly over 
Barely touching 
Choke 
Smother
Crush 
Press 
Maul 
Clutch 
Grip 
Force 
Slap 
Strike 
Fist 
Grab 
Twist 
Bite 
Nip

What a ridiculous exercise! I am not sure how many of these words I am going to be able to weave into my next erotic novel, but I am grateful there are so many words I could use - when wet, hot and touch get worn out.

Thank you for playing with me!

With Love,

Regina Grimm is the author of erotic fairytales, written for the uninhibited readers 18+.

Check out her books:
Snow White and the Wicked Queen: Chapter 1
Snow White and the Vicious Curse: Chapter 2
Snow White and the Seven Thieves: Chapter 3
Snow White and the Poisoned Apple: The Final Chapter

Prefer to read the whole story at once? Grab your copy of Snow: The Complete Erotic Series now! All five books are available now as ebooks and paperbacks. Coming soon in Large Print format!

2nd edition coming 2025!
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